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10 Unexpected Health Benefits Of Sperm, Longevity, Good Skin, Anti-depressant |RN

By Shellie R. Warren (Xonecole)

Something that I’ve been told my entire life is that I don’t have much of a screensaver on my face. Translation — whatever I’m thinking, it shows up on my face.

Luckily, because a lot of the marriage life coaching I do happens over the phone, this isn’t an issue. I say that because whenever I hear one or both my clients say that they don’t participate in oral sex, you should see my facial expression. It’s a combination of “Huh?!”, “You can’t be serious,” and “Come here, you need a hug.”

Aside from the pleasure provided, there are all sorts of health benefits that oral sex provides. For instance fellas, did you know that a woman’s vagina contains 100,000 to 100 million Lactobacillus cells in just one gram of her vaginal fluid? That makes it the ultimate kind of probiotic, which are needed in order to keep your gut healthy, your heart strong, and your brain working at its optimal level. (The more you know!)

I could go on and on about what a woman’s womb can do for a man. But since this site is all about empowering women, let me take a few moments to share what makes sperm and semen (the fluid that carries sperm) a superpower in its own right!

Sperm is the Ultimate Multi-Vitamin

 

Let’s begin by doing a brief rundown of what sperm contains. A tiny teaspoon’s worth of sperm contains 200 different proteins, vitamins B12, C and E, zinc, calcium, citric acid, glucose, fructose, potassium, nitrogen, magnesium, estrogen, testosterone, DHEA (a steroid hormone), TRH (a mood enhancer), sodium, copper, lipids and even ammonia (which is a hint of what you probably taste in ejaculate). And that’s literally only scratching the surface!

Hopefully, it goes without saying that sperm can only benefit you if it’s healthy. So make sure that you and your partner get tested for STDs (rapid result home tests are available), that the relationship is mutually exclusive, and that you’re mindful of whose sperm you’re getting (check out “Semen Has Controlling Power over Female Genes and Behavior”).

But once you get the green light, as you can see, when it comes to sperm, it really and truly is ALL good!

Sperm is an Anti-Depressant

 

Depression ain’t nothin’ to play with. So, if it’s been a few weeks and you’re still weepy and irritable, you can’t sleep and you won’t eat, don’t “Google” a diagnosis or remedy. Make an appointment to see your doctor.

However, there is a direct correlation between women who have unprotected sex (vaginally or orally) and them feeling less anxious and being in a better mood. It’s partly due to the oxytocin, progesterone, endorphins, and serotonin that’s found in sperm.

One study even revealed that 20 percent of women who always used condoms had suicidal thoughts while only 5 percent of those who went without did.

Sperm Makes You Smarter

 

Have you ever heard of Nerve Growth Factor (NGF) before? Long story short, it’s an anti-inflammatory and antioxidant group of small proteins that’s directly related to the growth and survival of your neurons (your nerve cells); sperm has plenty of these in it.

Not only do scientists believe that NFG makes us smarter, but they’ve also discovered that it can relieve symptoms related to depression and even schizophrenia as well.

Sperm is a Tooth Whitener

 

Roll your eyes if you want to, but guess what the leading cause of dingy teeth is? Not brushing is a given, but if you don’t have enough zinc in your system, that could be the underlying cause.

Guess how much zinc is in a teaspoon of sperm? A whopping 3 percent of what your body needs daily! Being that sperm has calcium in it too, a swig every now and then can strengthen and whiten your teeth too!

Sperm can Keep Your Hair from Falling Out

 

While you’re out here on YouTube trying to find natural remedies for minor bald spots, maybe all you need is some good lovin’ or a sperm scalp massage, or both. Trust me, I know it sounds crazy but, thanks to the polyamine compound known as spermidine (which is all up in semen), science also attributes sperm to minimizing hair loss. The connection is this — when spermidine is active in our system, it works to increase stem cell growth and also lengthen our hair shaft.

If nothing can convince you to rub some semen on your head, foods that are high in spermidine include green peas, white potatoes, and chicken. (You’re welcome.)

Sperm is Good for Your Skin

 

Speaking of spermidine, it’s also really good for your skin. That’s because it’s also got tons of antioxidants that help to fight wrinkles, prevent acne, and even out your skin tone. Plus, spermidine contains proteolytic enzymes. Do some Googling on those; they are some of the most powerful exfoliants on the planet!

Does that mean I’m slick trying to talk you into a — cough, cough — facial? I’ll totally leave that to your discretion. But it couldn’t hurt. Just sayin’.

Sperm can Prevent Preeclampsia

 

Here’s something that just might surprise you. Did you know that oral sex can lower your blood pressure? Since sperm also contains the natural stress hormone cortisol, along with a good dose of melatonin, they work together to keep your blood pressure stabilized.

This is really good info if you’re pregnant because there’s solid data to support that if you swallow sperm in your third trimester, it can lower your risk of developing preeclampsia (dangerously high blood pressure during pregnancy).

Sperm Makes You Hornier

 

Yeah. I’m pretty sure you’ve heard men say something along the lines of, “Once you start, you’ll get in the mood.” Whether they knew it or not, there was actually some truth to that. Since sperm contains the sex hormones estrogen and testosterone, once you get extra dosages into your system, especially testosterone, it can definitely boost your sex drive.

Sperm is a Sleep Agent

 

Having a hard time getting to sleep? Hmm…what was it that Salt (of Salt-N-Pepa) once said? She said her man could knock her out with one shot for the rest of the night, right? If they were having unprotected sex, that very well could be true!

As I mentioned earlier, melatonin (a hormone that regulates wakefulness) is present in sperm. So, if you’ve been having a few sleepless nights, rather than going out and getting a melatonin supplement, save your coins and have sex instead. The sex workout combined with the sperm you’ll receive should be all of the sleep assistance you need!

Sperm Can Make You Live Longer

 

And finally, if none of the other benefits I just shared convinced you to take some sperm shots, maybe this one will. Thanks again to the beauty of spermidine, sperm can also extend your time on the Earth. That’s because spermidine also helps to regulate your genes as it delays the aging process.

(Xonecole)

 

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Wife Shames Facebook User For Hanging Out With Her Husband, She Replies

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A distraught wife took to Facebook to call out a Facebook user who was hanging out with her husband, and also disclosing how much they both love each other on the platform.

The Facebook user identified as Precious John had written ‘this is my feature (future) man. He really loves me just the way I do’. However the man’s wife identified as Gift Uzor stormed the page to call out the Facebook user hanging out with her husband, who according to her is the father of four children.

The wife wrote; Precious u are nothing but a public dog…So u don’t c any man to hangout with again except my husband, the father of four children. God will punish u and ur generation. U will never see any good in ur life

Reacting to being called out by her lover’s wife, Precious John wrote in response ‘chilling with another woman’s husband. As u can c his hand there, he’s fun to be with…

This obviously is going to get nasty, if care is not taken. The issue of sidechicks has created much euphoria on the social media among Nigerians.

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Viral Video: Lady Who Flogged Victim Begs, Asks Nigerians To Stop Her From Going To Jail

By Chibiko Ikenna Offor

It is wisdom to think before acting and one of the ladies who humiliated the victim in the viral video, wishes she did just that.

The Nigerian lady, who allegedly helped her sister to strip naked, humiliate the lady in the viral video, who also flogged the lady they lured to their house, is begging Nigerians to speak up on her behalf to prevent her from going to jail.

In her own words:

“Nigerians please, arise and speak for me; I don’t want to go to jail; I am deeply sorry for my action. This is not my character, I acted based on my emotions for my child of which my ex -husband took away from me. I don’t want to go to jail help me Nigerians protest for my sake”.

The problem is that she cannot take back the pains and humiliation she and her sister caused the other lady, who is also a widow.

Obviously, a long jail term is beckoning on her and her accomplice. She will learn her lessons in prison.

This video has generated a lot of euphoria, anger, discussions and a lot of attention on the social media. And many have shown disgust, anger than acceptance for the actions of these two ladies on their fellow woman.

Their plans was evil and criminal and a punishment is something they well deserve.

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Nigerian Man Denies Son’s Paternity, Lays Curses On Wife, “Son Of Baal” Responsible For The Treachery

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By Ike A. Offor

A Nigerian man by name Bob-Manuel Don-Christian, who is the Managing Director of Outreach Alliance Solutions Company, has in the strongest of term denied the paternity of his only son.

In his own angry curse-filled message on Facebook, he poured his heart out and cursed whoever the “son of Baal” who connived with his wife to bore their only son.

In his own words as he poured his aching heart out on his Facebook wall.

Here is his angry message:

“For all of you who think for some time now that I have gone berserk, I would like to bring to your knowledge that I have for 12 long years been responsible and a good husband and also a good father.

The man and his wife

Today I would love to go public by making it known to all who think am crazy, to know that for 9 years my estranged wife could not give me a male child, until she had to hire a priest of baal to sow a seed of wickedness in her which she tried to implant in my dynasty.

However, today even the Almighty who knows my heart brought this wickedness to my knowledge and for this I thought it is the right time to set the records straight. If there be reasonable people with a wholesome fear of God, somebody should tell this wicked desperate harlot of a woman to take the child to his father.
A bastard can never have a place in my bloodline. No wickedness done against the chosen of God will go unpunished.
I have decreed and it shall stand.
The evil conspirators will never know peace as long as they walk. I have made a covenant with the earth that every one who are part of this treachery and dishonour done against my happiness will go mad.

The son in question

If I be a chosen of Yahweh, before the fall of September this things shall begin to happen.
If I have served the Almighty with trembling fear and with reverence no man will go free of my decrees”.

Mr Don-Christian is obviously mad and his heart is aching as one can see from his words and this message has generated some viral comments and is going to get even crazier.

The problem of child’s paternity and DNA test has been a very sensitive topic among Nigerians in the social media. This obviously is going to go indeed viral.

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Married Woman Dies While Spending Night With Man Who Has Three Wives |RN

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The Plateau Police Command has arrested a 42-year-old man, Gundumi Saya, over the death of his married lover, one Mrs. Hajara Markus, who died while spending the night with him.

According to the Police charge sheet currently before Justice Daniel Longji of the Plateau State High Court, Jos, Saya, who has three wives and 14 children, is a resident of Zango-Dinya in Bassa Local Government of Plateau.

The accused, who is being charged with culpable homicide, allegedly committed the offence on November 21, 2018.

The Police alleged that the suspect, on November 21, committed the act of adultery with the deceased when he lured her out of her matrimonial home to have sexual intercourse with her, an offence that contravened Section 368 of the Penal Code.

The charge sheet further said that the suspect intentionally dumped the body of the deceased by the road side, after he realised that she had died in his custody while he was having sexual relations with him.

It said that the accused refused to inform the Police of Hajara’s death, thereby contravening sections 189 and 102 of the Penal Code.

The suspect, in a confessional statement, however, denied killing his lover, stating that he woke up to make love to her in the middle of the night, only to find her dead.

“I have known Hajara before she got married; I have been in a relationship with her for a long time. In-between, she got married and got divorced twice, but we still kept on seeing each other until she got married again a few years ago.

“Whenever I wanted to have sexual relations with her, I invited her to the bush where we will catch our fun, and she will return home.

“On the said date, we arranged to meet at my friend’s place, one Ojukwu, who is also married, after she had told her husband that she was going for a wedding in Bauchi State.

“As agreed, we met at Ojukwu’s house and he (Ojukwu) gave us a room to pass the night.

“Ojukwu’s wife later sent a boy with garri (cassava flour) and kuli-kuli (groundnut cake) to Hajara, which she soaked and took after which she retired to sleep.

“I woke up at 2a.m. to make love to her, but discovered that she was motionless. I quickly ran to Ojukwu’s room to alert him, but his wife told me that he did not sleep at home.

“I called him on phone to tell him what happened; when he came, I suggested that we should report the matter to the Police, but he told me not to do that because I would land in serious trouble.’’

The statement quoted the accused as claiming that Ojukwu advised him to dump the body by the roadside, which they both did, and went their separate ways.

The statement said further: “Six days after we dumped Hajara’s body, I heard some commotion in front of my house and when I peeped, I saw policemen who came to arrest me.

“I ran to the bush and stayed there for three days after which my daughter called to tell me that my elder brother had been taken away by the Police.

“I felt bad when I heard that sad news and decided to surrender myself to the Police.’’

In an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria on Thursday in Jos, Saya maintained that he had no hand in the death of the late woman.

“I did not kill her. But I may not know if my friend’s wife poisoned the garri she gave her because that was the last thing she took before going to bed.’’

Husband to the deceased, Mr. Markus Jagaba, 44, in his statement, said his late wife took permission from him to attend a wedding at Jakandangiwa village in Bauchi State.

Jagaba said he allowed her to go because it was a family occasion and he did not suspect that she was going to meet another man.

“My wife told me she was going to attend a family occasion at Jakandangiwa village in Bauchi State. I did not argue with her. I simply allowed to go because I didn’t know she had other plans.

“I became worried when she did not return home after the wedding and did not respond to my phone calls. I called her family members and was shocked to learn that she was not at the wedding.

“When we did not see her after searching everywhere, my family and I reported the matter to the Police, after which I was called by the Police, some days later, to come over and identify the corpse which I confirmed to be my wife’s.’’

Elder brother to the suspect, Mr. Yakuba Saya, told NAN that no one in the family knew that he (suspect), was dating a married woman until the Police stormed their house to make the arrest.

“I was at home when the Police barged in to arrest my brother. When they could not find him, they arrested me,’’ he said; adding that his brother (the suspect) confessed to him that he actually dumped the body of his lover on the roadside.

“He told me he actually dumped the body of the woman on the roadside, but he insisted that he was not behind her death.’’

NAN reports that the Police have charged the suspect to court on  three counts of adultery, culpable homicide and failure to give notice/information to a public servant.

Saya is to be arraigned on Monday, April 1, before Justice Daniel Longji of the Plateau State High Court sitting in Jos.

(NAN)

 

 

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Viral Video: Lady Who Flogged Victim In Video Arraigned In Court, Was Expelled From School

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The lady who did the flogging waiting for her time in court

by Ike
One of the women who flogged the lady in the viral video in Anambra state has been arraigned in court alongside other suspects linked to the assault incident.
Nigerian humanitarian, Paulcy Iwuala who confirmed that the woman who flogged the lady in the viral nude video has been arraigned in court alongside other suspects, said she had no atom of remorse in her, as one minute she’s sober the other minute she’s shouting at anyone that probed further her about her personality. It was further gathered that the lady who was spotted in the video flogging the victim, Ogo, was expelled from school in the Philippines.
Ogo (the victim) who has a son lost her husband two years ago to a car accident, since then life has been hell. She said, ‘my intention was not to break any home, he has been my friend even before we got married’, she ended it with these words “ ‘It is going to get tougher now, can I live with this’? ..  (Unclesuru)
Some account by an eyewitness in court

Here are photos from the court proceedings below;

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Court session

 

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Outside the court premises

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Viral Video: Perpetrators Who Stripped Lady Naked Face 5 Charges, Jail Term |RN

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The victim being brutalised by the prepetrators

By Editor,

The case of a lady  whose video went viral on the social media has finally changed to blackmail, conspiracy, and deprivation of liberty, and jail term is now beckoning on those behind such a shameful act.

The video ignited a strong discussion among Nigerians about husbands or male parnters and their so-called sidechicks and how the women handled this case.

Arrest have been made in the case of the viral video showing a naked lady being beaten by another lady for allegedly having an affair with the husband of the beater.

The video made it look like those were caught having sex but the lady in question was invited by the husband of one of the ladies and she came over before the ladies came in to embarras her and stripped her naked and locked her up for several hours.

The details of the case and charges are a follow below:

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CONSPIRACY, BLACKMAIL, DEPRIVATION OF LIBERTY AND ASSAULT OCCASIONING HARM.

On the 21/3/2019 at about 2:40pm, one Okafor Ogochukwu ‘F’ of Osile Village Ogidi reported at Central Police Station Awka that on 19/03/2019 at about 11:36am, she was invited by her male facebook friend, one Ifeanyi Azota ‘m’ to his house at Ezimezi village in Amawbia. All of a sudden a woman who claimed to be his wife namely Azotani Toochukwu ‘f’ suddenly appeared into the house with her friend one Ogochukwu Nwankwo ‘F’ and Locked her inside the bathroom for almost four hours and left.

  1. The women later came back with two big canes and opened the bathroom door.
  2. However, while the suspect’s friend, one Ogochukwu Nwankwo stripped her naked and flogged her severally, the principal suspect was busy video taping the incident and thereafter pushed her out from the compound naked.

  3. Complainant further alleged that the principal suspect, Azotani Toochuckwu called her on phone the following day and demanded for the sum of Sixty thousand Naira (N60,000) or they will post her nude video on the internet.

  4. Consequently, when the complainant refused to pay the money as requested, the principal suspect Azotani Toochukwu actualised her threat and posted the naked video to the internet and since then the video went viral.

  5. Meanwhile, three suspects have been arrested and scene of the incident was visited by police detectives attached to Central Police Station Awka. The case is under investigation after which suspects would be charged to court for prosecution.

SP Haruna Mohammed PPRO Anambra State Police Command,
For -Commissioner of Police Anambra State Command.

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Viral Video: Police Arrest 3 As Anambra Woman Strips, Beats Hubby’s Facebook Friend

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Geoffrey Anyanwu, Awka
 
The police in Anambra State have arrested three persons including a woman for stripping and attacking her husband’s Facebook female friend.
 
The woman, Tochukwu Azota, allegedly attacked and stripped Okafor Ogochukwu her husband’s Facebook friend in their family house at Amawbia, Awka South local government of the state.
 
It was alleged that Mr. Azota had Ogochukwu through Facebook before bringing her into their matrimonial home in Amawbia when the incident happened.
 
Our correspondent gathered that Mrs. Azota had been monitoring her husband’s conversation with Ogochukwu through his phone before she caught him with her on that fateful day.
 
She was said to have locked up the lovebirds in the room upon noticing the strange visitor, and went and procured the services of her friends who came back and gave the unwanted guest the beating of her life including stripping and chasing her out of gate naked.
 
A source in the family who pleaded anonymity said: “The woman was stripped, beaten to a pulp and her nude video uploaded on the social media.
 
“We tried to interven but her assailants stopped everybody from coming in until they accomplished their mission and pushed the woman out of the gate naked.”
 
Confirming the incident, the State Police Public Relations Officer, Haruna Mohammed, said three persons had already been arrested in connection with the matter, adding that the suspects would be charged to court after investigation.
 
“One Okafor Ogochukwu of Osile village Ogidi reported at Central Police Station Awka that she was invited by her male Facebook friend, one Ifeanyi Azota, to his house at Ezimezi village in Amawbia.
 
“All of a sudden a woman who claimed to be his wife, Azotani Tochukwu, appeared in the housed, one Ogochukwu Nwankwo (female) and locked her inside the bathroom for almost four hours and left.
 
“The women later came back with two big canes and opened the bathroom.
 
“While the suspect’s friend one Ogochukwu Nwankwo, stripped her naked and flogged her severally, the principal suspect was busy video-taping the incident and thereafter pushed her out from the compound naked.
 
“The complainant further alleged that the principal suspect, Azotani Toochuckwu, called her on phone the following day and demanded the sum of N60,000 or they would post her nude video on the internet.”
 
Mohammed further said, “consequently, when the complainant refused to pay the money as requested, the principal suspect Azotani Tochukwu, actualised her threat and posted the naked video on the internet and since then the video has gone viral.
 
“The scene of the incident had been visited by police detectives attached to Central Police Station Awka.”   (The Sun)
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Six Reasons Why Sex Is Special In Rainy Season |The Republican News

While there is no time of day or season of the year that sex cannot take place, the rainy season seems to possess that extra turn-on for activities between the sheets.

Why is this so? Find out!

You need the warmth. Drenched bodies call for some action and you long for your partner to rock the night! With rains pouring outside, accompanied by thunderstorms and lightning, you need the rain of love inside, and a cosy environment perfect for a beautiful love session.

Pleasant weather. Rains make the weather pleasant and one feels relaxed enough to indulge in the carnal desires. With soft winds blowing, and tiny rain droplets cooling off the entire atmosphere, the probability is that you’re hot and eager to have sex.

Water and fire. When hard-hitting rain collides with the heat generated by the passion of two bodies, only sex can happen! Sex becomes more meaningful and pleasurable when the forces of nature clash to create the magic!

Wet clothes. The human body, when covered in wet clothes, becomes a formula for sexual arousal. Who doesn’t love their partner fully drenched and oozing sensuality without even trying? It’s a sight to soothe your senses, not to mention to act upon it as well.

Perfect season. The dry season can be too dry, hot and sweaty for many people, such that sex takes the back seat on their bucket list. The harmattan season may also be too cold, sometimes, that you are reluctant to take off your clothes. The rainy season, therefore, seems a perfect gift from nature to just let go of all your inhibitions, relax your mind and only consider giving pleasure to your partner and deriving the same for yourself.

Music. Are you musically inclined? Well, which other season has as many songs dedicated to it about romance than the rainy season? Listen to any language of the world, it will have songs dedicated to the rains and romance. The music just adds to the pleasures of the moment and gives a distinct ambience to the entire atmosphere, making it looks like a fantasy come true!

The bottom line: Hit the bed! The rains are here just for a while. So, don’t miss the action! (Punch)

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SHOCKING: Mother, Two Teenage Twin Daughters Impregnated By Same Man |RN

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“I almost fainted when I read the text. It was my daughter telling him ‘mummy has discovered I’m pregnant and you know the baby is your own, what do we do?’”

– Mother and her 2 teenage twin daughters pregnant for one man

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Life has become a conundrum for Janet Agbazu, 45 and her 16-year-old twin daughters who found themselves in a mess that beats even the absurdities of the Shakespearean drama. That the widow and her daughter are all pregnant is not the issue, but that they were all put in the family way by the same man.

 

What’s worse, the villain, a character called Pius Salihu was literally a member of the family––the mother’s live-in lover and for two years, a father figure to the 16-year-olds. Presently, the three women, forced by fate to play actors in this drama of the absurd, are covered with shame. As for the villain in the plot, he is free and abroad, at large.

Pius Salihu moved through the family like a hurricane and reduced the lives of the three women to ruins, leaving them with regrets and recrimination and a very big problem that is now a Gordian knot for the family.

The woman at the centre of the storm

Janet Agbazu, the central figure in this incident, hails from Doma Local Government Area of Nasarawa State. Alago by tribe, she was educated at Government Science Secondary School Lafia and married at 19.

Her husband, Sylvester Anangba, an Eggon from Lafia Local Government Area of the state, died in the 2013 Ombatse crisis that engulfed Nasarawa State.

Until his death, he ran a thriving transportation business. The holder of National Certificate of Education (NCE) from the College of Education Akwanga had met his wife at her secondary school when he did his teaching practice. He married her shortly after she wrote her final examination.

The couple had their first childbirth two years after their marriage and after the ‘double blessing’ of twins, they never had another child––not for lack of trying, though––until the tragic death of Anangba in 2013.

At the time of their father’s death in the Ombatse upheaval, the twins were already in secondary school.

But the family found themselves in a precarious position when relatives of their late breadwinner confiscated his properties––including a house and three cars as well as cash and other belongings.

Left in the lurch by her in-laws, the widow got a lifeline from the associates of her late husband who raised her some money so she could start doing business and therefore was able to sustain the education of her two daughters in public schools.

The family seemed to have found their feet. They were ‘gently rowing their boat down the stream of life’ until a wolf in sheep clothing found his way into their fold and capsized their boat. Today, mother and daughters are at a nadir.

Enter the villain

It was in 2016 the widow met Pius Salihu. An Igala from Kogi State, Salihu, 42, was in Nasarawa State to run a Non-Governmental Organization (NGO) that focused on women and health. They met at the Lafia township stadium where both of them went to watch a premier league match.

Their relationship started from there and in six months blossomed to the point whereby Salihu, who was squatting with a friend, was encouraged by Janet Agbazu to move into her rented two-bedroom apartment. They began cohabiting in one bedroom, leaving the other room to the twins.

In the next two years, Pius Salihu became the head of the family, playing the role to the letter. He bonded with the twins, constantly taking them out for relaxation. Unknown to their mother, once out of sight, he shed the toga of a father figure and transform into a lover.

As she told Saturday Sun later in an interview: “I was not always around due to the nature of my business. I always leave him at home with them, thinking they were in safe hands. I never for once thought he could do a thing like that.”

Agbazu thought Salihu used charm on the twins, saying: “How he got them so cheaply beats my imagination. Both of them took oaths not to expose the secret affairs. He got them cheap through the use of Babalawo (herbalist) charm.”

She raved further: “It is unthinkable and unbelievable. He was sleeping with me and my daughters at every opportunity. It was a bad thing. After he succeeded in impregnating me and the two of them, he ran away. I can’t find him.”

The whole truth, nothing but the truth

Saturday Sun got a hint of the development on August 13, 2018, and effort to interview the family brought the reporter in contact with Mr Clement Nuanga, an uncle to the beleaguered mother of the twins. Nuanga lives in Toto and the three victims had relocated to his house in their quest for a solution to their problem.

On August 14, the reporter travelled to Toto Local Government Area, a six-hour drive away from Lafia. The reporter had an interview with Janet Agbazu, who narrated the ugly, sad development to Saturday Sun in the presence of her uncle.

Her story: “I’m 45 years old. I lost my husband to the Ombatse crisis in 2013. I am yet to be fully remarried. I live on my own with my two daughters. My husband’s brothers kicked me out of their brother’s house as a widow. It was my late husband’s friends who assisted me with some cash to start a business where I can take care of my children and myself.

“In 2016, I went into a blind relationship with one Pius Salihu, an Igala man. I was blinded by love, deceived by his fine face. I did not bother asking him to take me to his place. Though three years younger than me, he appeared to be an honest and a humble man, I accommodated him and moved him out of his friend’s house to come and stay with me. I had not met a man sexually since the demise of my husband years back, that also contributed to him getting me so cheaply.

“My daughters were old enough to appreciate that I needed a man in my life. I also assumed they were responsible enough to see him as their father. I thought I could trust him, so I gave him all the liberty he deserved in my house. Unfortunately, I miscalculated. Unknown to me, while he was sleeping with me, at the same time, he was having affairs with my two daughters separately. These are small girls that were not exposed sexually. He enticed them with petty things and he got them easily. He was very close to them, so he got them cheaply by taking them out regularly. He also involved them deeply in the activities of the NGO he was running in the state. Sometimes, he would bring up a fake journey to Makurdi or Abuja. He would not travel with the two of them at the same time. Unknown to me, he was secretly enjoying my daughters right in my own house, and my daughters foolishly bought into his deceit”

The endgame

“Two weeks ago, the twins persistently complained of weakness of the body and malaria fever. They complained of stomach pains too. When I asked them when last they had their periods, I was shocked to hear from them that their menstrual flow ceased in May. Meanwhile, I was four-month pregnant for Pius, which is what I had always wanted, because I need a baby boy and the test shows my baby is a boy. The test at the hospital confirmed that Rose was two months pregnant and Mercy, a month pregnant.

“I was shocked because, at 16, my daughters who are students are not supposed to be pregnant. All my efforts, including threats, to force them to reveal the identity of those responsible for their pregnancies ended in vain.

“Back at home, I was outside the house trying to explain to Pius the shame the twins have caused when I heard his phone ringing inside the room. I went in to bring it for him, but the call ended just as I picked the phone, and a text message came in. I almost fainted when I read the text. It was from my daughter telling him that ‘mummy has discovered I’m pregnant and you know the baby is your own, what do we do?’

I saw another unread text from the other twin (Mercy): ‘I can’t keep this baby for you, what do we do.’

I asked Pius about the meaning of the text messages. He became restless and claimed to have received a phone call from his office. He left the house hastily.”

That was the last she saw of him till date.

“I only needed an explanation from him so that we can decide how to solve the problem. It was guilt that sent him on the run. Now, this is the third week. His phone numbers are switched off.”

In this latter part of the interview, Janet Agbazu relapsed into a monologue: “I am really confused, if God has not taken away my husband, I wouldn’t have found myself in this shame. How can somebody be so heartless as to sleep with me and my two daughters? This is an abomination.

I’m sure he used charms on them. I don’t even know his place. I am very confused. I am tired of life. How can somebody useless me and my daughters? God will not spare him wherever he is. How do I explain to people that my twins and I are pregnant with the same man and that he is nowhere to be found? My mind is blank. I looked at life and asked, was it really worth it? I hope for death every day. I never wished to see the next day.”

The reporter asked her: Do you intend to keep the three pregnancies?

Agbazu was confused. That is why she came to her uncle to help provide the way forward.

“Before the week runs out, we will arrive at a solution, but certainly my daughters can’t keep their pregnancy for the same man,” she said.

The family’s decision

While it is imperative to get the twins’ accounts of the incident, to shed light on why they got in between the sheet with a man they knew was their mother’s lover, their uncle, Mr Nuanga, however, would not permit the interview.

He has had a closed-door interrogation with them separately, he told Saturday Sun and his findings indicated that the present quagmire is “a mistake.”

“The sexual intercourse they had with him was as a result of ignorance and lack of sex education; if they know better, they won’t have done it,” said Nuanga.

They could not actually explain what came over them, he affirmed.

The twins, according to him, had no doubt Pius Salihu was responsible for their pregnancies.

“They even told me when, how and where they had met him severally, separately and unknown to each other,” said the troubled uncle.

He also avowed that Salihu perpetrated his crime with the aid of charms.

“Because they are also confused, it is not ordinary,” he insisted.

Clement Nuanga promised to consult some of his people for advice on how to handle the problem, though he hinted that the twins’ pregnancies could be aborted while their mother keeps her own.

“This is a serious matter that I cannot rush in taking a decision,” he said.

Efforts to reach Pius Salihu on phone failed. His phone numbers were switched off.  (The Sun)

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