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BREAKING NEWS: Pastor Wilson In Viral Sex Video Responds To His Critics, Says He Likes P…y (VIDEO)

Pastor David Wilson responds to his critics over the viral sex video about him with a black lady

by Ike A. Offor

Texan Pastor Wilson, who is involved in the viral sex video that has hit the entire social media has responded to his critics using some unusual language not easily used by the so-called men of God.

His response which is all contained in the video above truly portrays how real the man is to critics calling him out on his private life.

The pastor blasted his critics and said that he likes pussy and criticised his critics for being hypocrites.

It has finally been revealed the lady involved in the video with the pastor is the one who made it public and her name is identified as Corinthia Edwards. Her reason for making personal video public is yet unknown.

The lady in the video and who filmed the sex scene with the Pastor, identified as Corinthia Edwards

It appears that judging from the position of the lady and the pastor that, she was the one who filmed the scene with her smartphone, while she is been sucked by the pastor in question.

Pastor David Wilson, who is the senior pastor of The Bible Way Minsitry and World Outreach Inc, which is in Texas, said that he likes pussy and he is proud of it and said fuck all his critics.

Senior Pastor at The Bible Way Minsitry and World Outreach Inc, Pastor David Wilson

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Six Reasons Why Sex Is Special In Rainy Season |The Republican News

While there is no time of day or season of the year that sex cannot take place, the rainy season seems to possess that extra turn-on for activities between the sheets.

Why is this so? Find out!

You need the warmth. Drenched bodies call for some action and you long for your partner to rock the night! With rains pouring outside, accompanied by thunderstorms and lightning, you need the rain of love inside, and a cosy environment perfect for a beautiful love session.

Pleasant weather. Rains make the weather pleasant and one feels relaxed enough to indulge in the carnal desires. With soft winds blowing, and tiny rain droplets cooling off the entire atmosphere, the probability is that you’re hot and eager to have sex.

Water and fire. When hard-hitting rain collides with the heat generated by the passion of two bodies, only sex can happen! Sex becomes more meaningful and pleasurable when the forces of nature clash to create the magic!

Wet clothes. The human body, when covered in wet clothes, becomes a formula for sexual arousal. Who doesn’t love their partner fully drenched and oozing sensuality without even trying? It’s a sight to soothe your senses, not to mention to act upon it as well.

Perfect season. The dry season can be too dry, hot and sweaty for many people, such that sex takes the back seat on their bucket list. The harmattan season may also be too cold, sometimes, that you are reluctant to take off your clothes. The rainy season, therefore, seems a perfect gift from nature to just let go of all your inhibitions, relax your mind and only consider giving pleasure to your partner and deriving the same for yourself.

Music. Are you musically inclined? Well, which other season has as many songs dedicated to it about romance than the rainy season? Listen to any language of the world, it will have songs dedicated to the rains and romance. The music just adds to the pleasures of the moment and gives a distinct ambience to the entire atmosphere, making it looks like a fantasy come true!

The bottom line: Hit the bed! The rains are here just for a while. So, don’t miss the action! (Punch)

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10 Top Amazing Sex Tips For Women |RN

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• Make the first move. Men love it when women make the first move. So, initiate sex and take control. Take your time and set your own sexual pace to increase your own pleasure.

 Dress to impress. Experiment with dressing up to boost your sexual arousal. If a man in uniform turns you on, get your partner to dress up. Why not meet your lover at the door dressed in a tight skirt and blouse with stockings and killer heels to get his attention?

• Use toys. Regular sex toy use has been shown to increase sexual experience and satisfaction, rather than be a threat to a relationship and can lead to more satisfying orgasms. Many men love to watch their partner use a sex toy on themselves.

• Love lubricants. Using a lubricant during sex can greatly increase both your sexual pleasure and that of your man and make sex last longer too.

• Stop worrying about your body. Men are attracted to the whole package; so, become more confident with your body. Loving the way you look will make you irresistible to your partner.

• Change position. Being on top is extremely pleasurable for many women and will excite your partner too. Using a vibrating cock ring will stimulate both of you, or try a small bullet vibrator against your clitoris to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.

• Change it up. Make sex more fun by having it in other places, either inside or outside. Have a steamy shower, soaping each other with perfumed soaps or oils. Try having sex in the morning to keep you smiling all day or arrange to meet for lunch to have one.

• Read erotic fiction. Reading a few chapters from a short steamy erotic story will coax the first sparks of sexual desire in you and give you some ideas for your own sex life too.

• Tie me up. Blindfolding your man or being tied up and blindfolded yourself, using only your sense of smell, touch, taste and hearing can be intensely sexually arousing.

• Talk to each other. Open up a conversation about what makes you tick and what turns you on sexually. You may be pleasantly surprised about what your partner fantasises about.    (Punchng.com)

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Five Things Men Should Do After Sex |The Republican News

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Men love to have sex, but many men don’t know that after that earth-shaking orgasm that usually knocks them out, there are some areas of their health to take care of.

Doing one of these five things will enable any healthy man to perform better every time they want to have sex!

So, as a man, what are you expected to do after having sex? The following…

Eat banana. Cramps are some of the side effects of sex. So, eat a banana and drink water to prevent muscle spasms or cramps during and after sex. Again, nutritionists say bananas contain the enzyme bromelain, which some studies have found boosts a man’s libido. They are also rich in B vitamins, such as riboflavin, which are essential for the manufacturing of sex hormone, testosterone.

Wash your penis. Many men are careless when it comes to maintaining penis hygiene! Yet, sex experts counsel men to wash the penis with soap and water after sex, and especially for the uncircumcised male. Failure to do so can lead to infections and other diseases, physicians say. Poor penis hygiene can cause infections, inflammations, phimosis (congenital narrowing of the opening of the foreskin so that it cannot be retracted) and even tumours, they warn.

Drink water. Water is needed to flush out the toxins from the body. Drink sufficient water to maintain a good amount of blood and oxygen supply to the penis.

Take a nap. Well, most men would do this anyway! This is because of vasopressin, a hormone tightens the blood vessels and plays an important role in homeostasis of the body. This hormone is directly released in the brain and tends to relax the body.

Eat chia seeds. These seeds are a powerhouse of energy, along with other nutrients. Consuming chia seeds are the best way to boost energy and rebuild stamina, nutritionists say. And if you can find chia seeds in your locality, eat sesame seeds or pumpkin seeds. (Punchng.com)

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Six Sex Positions For Women With Big Butts |The Republican News

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If your woman has a big backside and you’re wondering how to navigate it sexually, here are some of the positions to take, as advised by sexologist, Dr. Jill McDevitt…

• The backwards crush: Put one foot up on a chair, which totally opens up your hips and changes the angle from your standard rear entry position. For easy access and safety, keep one foot on the ground. You can also stand in front of a mirror so you both can watch.

• Back up: Have him sit in a chair and tease him with your fine behind — shake it, squeeze it, and rub it on his crotch. Back it up, lowering yourself slowly down onto him. Hold on to something, because he’ll definitely want to grab your butts to enable him to go deep.

• The booty call: Here, you don’t need to take off your pants! Just bend over, push your pants to the side and have your partner get to work from behind.

• Reverse cowgirl remix: For this position, face his feet, wrap yourself around his waist, and jiggle your butt. Hold on to one of his legs and use the other to give yourself some vibe or hand love — the extra movement can propel you into a rhythm you’ll both go gaga for.

• The cheeky monkey: This is not anal sex, be warned. All you do is just lubricate your butt opening generously and let him just position his manhood between your butts. Lie flat on your belly and reach back to press your butt cheeks together for a tight fit. If you’re feeling especially brave, have him face your feet to try a whole new angle. (Punchng.com)

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Seven Ways To Keep Your Vagina In Good Condition, Young |The Republican News

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The vagina, just like other body organs, can atrophy when it’s not being taken care of, or put to proper use for that matter.

In order to make your vagina feel and behave young, here are the seven simple steps to take:

• Stay sexually active: Just as is the case with any body part, the vagina is a “use or lose it” organ. According to an expert in female sexual health and vaginal rejuvenation, Dr. Karen Boyle, as a woman ages, she begins to lose fat in the vagina areas, such that the vagina can start to sag. What to do? Stay sexually active. You need to get stimulation and increased blood flow to that area, otherwise, the tissue and muscle can change, Boyle says. Blood flow through sex and orgasm will help in keeping it lubricated. Plus, if you are not worried about pregnancy, your partner’s semen may have an anti-aging effect because of the hormones, fatty acids, and anti-inflammatory compounds that semen contains.

• Switch sex positions by mounting your man: Sex experts say that when you are always the one under during sex, the way your man pounds at your vagina can cause stretching, because he will the one to control the pace and the intensity of the thrusting, which means he may accidentally push past what’s physically comfortable for you. By contrast, when you’re on top, you’re in control—and “it’s much easier to contract those muscles when you’re on top,” says Boyle.

• Use mild cleansers: Scrubbing the living daylights out of your labia is not only unnecessary, but harsh soaps can leave you dry and irritated down there. The labial tissue is so sensitive, such that a gentle cleansing is all that you need to keep fresh any time.

• Maintain healthy weight: If you are the type that gains and loses weight carelessly, it can make your vulva to flop. According to Boyle, if your weight fluctuates wildly, it may lead to more stretching. And if you’re super skinny as an ageing woman, your private parts can start to look as gaunt as your face, researchers warn.

• Exercise your Kegels muscles: When you exercise the Kegels muscles, it gives you a tighter vagina and, ultimately, better sex. How to do Kegels exercise? Cosmetic gynaecologist, Dr. Marco Pelosi, says, contract your pelvic floor muscle like someone trying to withhold pee, do it for five seconds, relax, and repeat 100 times, three times a day. You can also make Kegels fun by squeezing a few reps in during sex. You can imagine pinching your partner’s penis with those muscles, which helps you target the right spot (and gives your guy an extra, pleasurable sensation).

• Ditch your office chair: For a little extra workout for your vaginal muscles, that is—trade your desk chair for a Swiss ball for 15 minutes a day. This forces the muscles of your pelvic floor to contract, without doing a single squeeze, says Pelosi. “It feels like nothing is happening, but it’s a very efficient way to keep the pelvic floor toned,” he says.

• Long bike rides are not exactly for you: Except you are training for a triathlon, you may not engage in long bike rides. This is because the constant friction of crotch-to-seat contact can pull and stretch your labia, especially if you have naturally pronounced outer lips, says cosmetic surgeon, Dr. Christine Hamori.   (Punchng.com)

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To Improve Your Eyesight, Have More Sex |The Republican News

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You may feel tired and sleepy after a bout of passionate sex. But one thing is certain: you are not likely to have blurry vision in the aftermath of a good sex. So say scientific researchers.

Experts have said that the act of sex sets off a cascade of hormones, which not only trigger pleasure, happiness, and bonding, but also improves the vision by relaxing the muscles in the eye, neck and shoulders.

Specialist in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital, Dr. Arun Ghosh, notes that sex relaxes the muscles and alleviates neck and shoulder tension.

“Surprisingly, sex might also tell you whether you need glasses,” he claims.

“I’ve had patients complain of poor vision after sex. What’s happened is that, like all the other muscles in the body, their eye muscles have relaxed and are performing at their true ability, rather than straining and squinting as they would normally.

“So, if your sight goes blurry after sex, it’s worth going for an eye test,” Ghosh counsels. (Punchng.com)

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5 Satisfying Sex Position To Try When Your Partner Has A Small Penis

 

These little tips pack a big punch.

A true micropenis — 2 ¾ inches or less when erect — is relatively rare. But whether the penis you’re working with is officially micro or just semi-micro, these positions will keep it hot with your differently hung dude. (Maybe even hotter than with Mr. Huge Dick, since penis size can sometimes be inversely proportional to how much of an actual dick a guy is.)

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1 Rock and Grind

Get on top and instead of thrusting, do more of a slow grind. Roll your hips, rubbing against his penis, his pubic bone, his pubes, whatever is feeling good for you. If he’s inside you, that’s cool — the most sensitive vag-part is the first couple inches. If he’s constantly slipping out, that’s OK too; just slide and rub across the underside of his shaft, and you’ll both be happy.

 

2 The Double Down

Get some his-and-hers vibes for mutual battery-operated bliss. Straddle his legs, give him a hand job, then when he’s completely panting for you, slide a P-spot toy like a b-Vibe Rimming plug up his butt. (Ask! First!). He wields a clit-vibe on you, and you can both bask in the wonders of technology together.

 

3 The Lapping Dog

 

Doggy is great for the smaller-peened because it gets ’em about as deep as they’re gonna get. Take advantage of the sublime oral skills he’s (hopefully) developed along the way by varying thrusts with oral. After some good hard pumps, he pulls out and goes to work on you with his mouth. Let yourself be completely vulnerable and open, and get lost in the sensations of that amazing mouth of his.

4 The Tight End

Get in a spoon position for anal that’s almost 100 percent guaranteed not to hurt. He gets a tighter fit and you get the feeling of being filled. Plus, if he reaches around and strokes you at the same time, you will also get the feeling of “having an orgasm.”

5 The Silicone Racehorse

Even though vaginal intercourse doesn’t do it for most women, orgasm-wise, there is something so beyond amazing about the feeling of a big penis deep inside of you. If neither of you has said big penis, get your ass to the store and buy yourselves one. Try a penis extender, which fits over his penis and will give him the pleasure of going at it with new gusto. Rub yourself to orgasm, during, and let him watch. Finish him off with a BJ so he remembers that you dig his real parts too.

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How To Make Your Woman Desire More Sex |The Republican News

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Many couples get lazy with sex! They go into it as a matter of routine. No wonder that it sometimes becomes boring and altogether pushed to the back burner in a relationship!

Yet, sex experts are saying that in order for sex to be exciting and ‘new’ each time, you can spice it up in a lot of ways as follow…

Try new position: Even if both of you have an easier time reaching orgasm in one position (as do most women), you can still try other positions. For instance, moving around during sex, and changing positions has several benefits. It not only helps the man last longer, it also helps increase the excitement factor.

For instance, the woman can get on top, move the legs around and find a good angle. Make it a goal that every third time you make love, you’ll use at least three positions. So maybe two times are fun and simple, but then, spice the third time up!

Tilt your pelvis: For women to reach an orgasm, the clitoris must be stimulated in some way. Normal missionary position sex doesn’t tend to do this. But with one simple trick, you can make it so much better. Encourage your woman to tilt up her pelvis (by squeezing her butt muscles).

This makes the angle better so that when he’s thrusting, he will hit your clitoris. But you also engage his penis because the tilting squeezes the clitoris. You can do this in any position and enhance the pleasure.

Start with a massage: Couples are encouraged to start sex with a massage. Keep some massage oil on the bedside table, or a massage candle, and start by massaging each other’s backs and legs.

The benefits? It helps you relax first. Also, if you massage naked, it’s very sensual, and it can get the libido going. It also shows that both of you care, it helps your bodies to relax, and it helps both of you to calm down mentally.

Play teacher: Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that you understand each other sexually. What feels good to one person does not necessarily feel good to another. And men tend to like being touched very differently than women do (men like things rougher and more deliberate; women tend to like things lighter).

Also, just because something is an erotic zone does not mean that it wants to be touched all the time. For instance, many women don’t like their breasts touched roughly at all, or even handled that much; but when they’re highly aroused all of a sudden, it’s exciting. So, tell each other exactly what to do. The advantage here is that couples may think they’ve lost their libido when really their bodies have just changed and responded to different things now.   (Punchng.com)

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Nigeria’s Sex Toy Market Booms In Recession, As More People Turn To ‘Jessica Rabbit’ For Pleasure

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In the midst of the biting economic crisis facing many Nigerians, forcing many to go as far as committing suicide, a sub-sector of the Nigerian economy is booming bringing smile to the faces of people lacking sexual fulfilment – married and singles alike.

In a society where people can hardly speak openly about sexual problems, Saturday PUNCH’s investigation shows that some vendors sell sex toys worth millions of naira every month.

A sex therapist and prominent sex toy vendor, Mrs. Iheoma Obibi, explained that contemporary Nigerians are gradually coming out of some sort of “sexual darkness” and this is creating a boom in the market with an attendant influx of fake sex toys.

For the last six and half years, Kemi Fawole, a certified sex therapist, has been dealing in adult products including sex toys.

She told Saturday PUNCH that she sells at least N7m worth of sex toys yearly. It is about the same for actress-turned sex toy vendor, Bisi Ibidapo-Obe, who told one of our correspondents, “I cannot estimate how much of sex toys I sell in a year but I know that in about three to six months, I rake in more than N3m.”

Yet, these two are just a small fraction of the numerous sex toy vendors who now trade in the country.

Every now and then, a new vendor like Japhet Okoromadu enters the market and soon realises how supply of sex toys pales in comparison to the deluge of demands by Nigerians.

One of our correspondents met Japhet Okoromadu, who has just started selling sex toys online about a year ago.

He said, “I sell penis enlargement pumps and vaginal tightening cream as well. Right now, the demand I get for sex toys is more than my available stocks,” he said.

“I get male customers as much as female. Some ladies even chat with men, complaining bitterly how they are suffering in silence, and how their husbands cannot satisfy them. Eighty five per cent of complaints about sex that I get from clients is about not being satisfied by spouses. Unfortunately, most of the women cannot voice out their concern to their partners.” It was learnt that some of these adult products, sell for between N5,000 and N25,000 while premium brands sell for higher.

Fawole also said some of her vibrators are as cheap as N5,000 while some are as high as N150,000.  She said the common vibrators are between N5,000 and N20,000.

In Ibidapo-Obe’s store at Magodo, in Lagos, the cheapest sex toy in her store sells for about N30,000 while the most expensive is about N200,000.

Judging by the volume of sales that many of the sex toy vendors our correspondents spoke with make annually, there is no doubt that the industry runs into several millions.

Crave for sexual fulfilment driving a multi-million naira market

“Why can’t you tell your husband you are not satisfied?” As innocent as this question is, when our correspondents interacted with some users of sex toys, it turned out to be at the heart of the demands that drive the adult products industry in the country.

At 32, Jane Adebola (not real name) has been married for three years. But that was enough time for her to almost give up hope of ever getting the level of the sexual satisfaction she deserves in her marriage.

When adebola shared her story with one of our correspondents, it was not in the coy, carefree banter in which issues of sex are often discussed among friends. She was serious. For her, it was not something to be joked with.

“Before I was married, I was sexually active for at least five years. That does not mean I was hopping from bed to bed, though. But the truth is that throughout that five years, I never experienced an orgasm. I was looking forward to my marriage because then, I knew I would get all the sexual fulfilment I wanted,” she said.

She confided in one of our correspondents that now, despite having a wonderful marriage and a husband that dotes on her, the sexual expectation she took into the marriage has all but waned.

“I realised that the issue of not reaching orgasm is a very big problem. I do reach orgasm, but only when I pleasure myself after my husband is done,” Adebola said.

But Adebola is not alone.

Planned Parenthood reports that one in three women has problems reaching orgasm with their partner, while up to 80 per cent of women struggle to orgasm from just intercourse.

Sex therapist, Funmi Akingbade, cited a report, which suggests that only 29 per cent of married women admit that they have orgasm with their husbands.

But for women like Adebola, the solution only lies in being “bold and experimental” in seeking sexual satisfaction.

Adebola said after suffering for so long and pretending that she was having a swell time anytime she had a sexual contact with her husband, she summoned the courage to tell him one day.

“He was shocked when I told him that he had never made me climax before. He believed that since I never complained, all was well. But we sat down and talked about it. I told him of my intention to buy a sex toy and he was very supportive,” she said.

Few months ago, a courier service delivered a nondescript package at their doorstep. That was the day “Jessica Rabbit” came into their lives.

Saturday PUNCH learnt that there are two main types of vibrators (penile shaped sex toys), the normal one that serves the purpose of penetration and another – Jessica Rabbit – that not only penetrates but also stimulates the clitoris in the process.

Since Jessica Rabbit came into Adebola’s home, life has not remained the same.

“I would never think about cheating on my husband. Today, I have no complaint. What my husband cannot finish, Jessica Rabbit perfects. With so many sex toys available these days, no woman should cheat on her husband just because he cannot satisfy her anymore,” she said.

But many people are not as adventurous as edible household food items still bear the brunt of their husband’s laxity.

One married woman told Saturday PUNCH how she was surprised that her friend was still using cucumber and carrot to pleasure herself despite the fact that she could simply order a suitable sex toy online in Nigeria now.

‘A sex toy cannot break your heart’

Married women like Adebola are not the only ones who are beginning to embrace the use of sex toys in the country.

Rachael, a young single woman and resident of Lagos, who also shared her story anonymously like all the other users who volunteered to speak with our correspondents after much persuasion, explained that she even has two.

She started using a sex toy called “Bullet” in 2014 and has since acquired a second one. According to her, the toys “serve their purpose” twice in a month.

“A sex toy can only break, it cannot break your heart,” she said, a reasoning that underscores why she has resorted to its use.

According to her, since she was sexually active, she could not bear the thought of becoming intimate with a man, whose long-term commitment she is not sure of. Rather than satisfy her sexual urge by sharing her body with someone she could not totally trust, she uses sex toys.

So, her toys “keep the hungry beast fed” while she also does not have to worry about being dumped by a man she has become intimate with.

“The toys don’t get broken easily unless you go out of your way to destroy them. I get 100 per cent satisfaction from them. I had my first sex toy in December 2014 and the second one in March 2016,” Rachael said.

Rachael said even after she began a relationship with a young man recently, she still continued the use of her vibrator, which she said the boyfriend was aware of.

But then, even men use sex toys. There are abundant sex toys on Nigerian online shops made for men. As those for women have the phallic shape, those for men come in the shapes of the female genitalia, made with silicon material soft enough to give the necessary sensation.

Apart from the most common handheld sex toys made for men, sex dolls are gradually gaining traction. Akin, an IT expert and Lagos resident, who admitted to his use of male sex toys, said he is “lucky” enough to have acquired one, an inflatable life-size doll with a silicon adjustable genitalia.

Akin said the genitalia can be adjusted to be anyway he wanted it, tight or otherwise.

He told Saturday PUNCH that after his last relationship ended after seven years, he found it difficult to find love again. He said even though he had had a number of casual sex since then, it has been difficult finding a woman who understands him like his ex-girlfriend did.

He said, “My ex-girlfriend indulged all my sexual desires and knew exactly all the positions I liked. These days, being an IT man, I am in front of the computer most times and do not have time to search for a lover.

“So, I decided to order an inflatable sex doll. Even though it may sound perverted, I would rather hold on to my sex doll till I meet a suitable woman than waste my time chasing women around,” he said.

But of course, like many people who use sex toys, Akin could not even tell his closest friend about his bedroom secret.

A society coming out of its shell

In a society where there is still a conservative attitude around sex, many Nigerians, mostly educated, are beginning to come out of their shells for full sexual expression.

The term “sex toy” does not exactly convey the seriousness behind the problems that force many married women and men to turn to the use of these aids. In fact, sex therapists and the traders who deal in these devices told our correspondents that it would be better to refer to them as “adult sex aids”.

Obibi, who has practised as a sex therapist and sex toy vendor in Nigeria for more than six years, told Saturday PUNCH, “People are beginning to understand and accept that it is important to have a healthy intimate life. Having a successful intimate life with your partner of choice is important and a key de-stressor whether male or female.

“As Nigerians have become better educated on the need for a fulfilled intimate life, they are beginning to utilise all possibilities to make this a reality for themselves.”

Obibi told one of our correspondents that her male customers, most of whom are over the age of 40, spend more on sex toys than the female.

Asked what reason her customers usually give for wanting sex toys and she said it is usually about expressing their unsatisfied sexual desires.

“The over 40s are comfortable in their sexual desire and skin and are able to decide if, what type and when they should buy a sex toy. The younger generations are more experimental in the kinds of sex they engage in but are also willing to engage, to a certain degree, in risky sexual behaviour,” she said.

According to her, apart from requests by her male customers for products that increase the stamina, elongate the penis and delay ejaculation, she gets a lot of orders from women who want Jessica Rabbit.

Obibi said the industry is growing so big that vendors who sell quality products are now having to deal with substandard and cheap products brought in from China.

“The influx of fake Chinese sex toys, which produce odour and have other side effects is something to be concerned about. Yes, these are cheap but are they safe? This is why we cannot really estimate how large the industry has become,” she said.

Fawole also said she had been an adult product vendor for over six years. She said her business started when she realised that almost on a daily basis, she met at least one person battling lack of sexual fulfilment.

She said, “I decided to do a lot of research, armed with the experiences of my friends and many people I had met, I realised I just had to establish an adult store.

“The sex toys are now just a section of my adult store. I sell erection enhancer, lubricants, sex toys, pheromones, educational DVDs, books and lingerie.”

The interesting thing about Fawole’s business is her clientele.

“Ninety per cent of my clients are men who buy them for their wives. Many of my clients are also sailors who travel a lot. I have many clients that are ship captains and sailors. They buy for their wives because they are usually away from home for so long. Also, some military men buy them when they are away from home for too long. They would say it is better for their wives to be with a vibrator than become unfaithful.”

She also explained that some clients she had met were widows who have stayed without sex for too long and don’t find natural penetration by a man easy and need a vibrator to precede the action.

She said the sexual ignorance fuelled by hypocrisy in the society is what is driving the market

“There are times I take some of the clients over the basics of sex. Most of them have very old mentality of sex. It is not about going in and coming out.  We need a lot of education about sex.

“Most of our clients are highly educated and classy people. Yet, their understanding of sex is still limited. We have not even tapped into the market of the uneducated ones.”

Like Obibi, Fawole has had to make use of online stores for the benefit of most of the clients who prefer discretion to escape society’s negative reaction to their sexual choices.

Such society reactions came out when the picture of a woman trended few weeks ago on the social media. The Nigerian woman had apparently gone to a social event with her bag unzipped beside her table. The photograph captured one of people derided.

“That hypocrisy is exactly why our store moved online. Despite that, some of our clients still send text messages appealing that we should not make their information public in any way,” Fawole said.

Price-wise, she said some of her products are too expensive to be stocked and have to be ordered for customers. Yet, Nigerians buy these.

For instance, Saturday PUNCH learnt that sex dolls, which have not become as common as other sex toys cost as high as $1,500 (about N475,000) to be ordered and shipped to Nigeria.

Okoromadu explained that once in a while, he got orders  for dolls from his clients.

“I noticed that the rise in same sex relationships in the country, even though prohibited by law is also putting sex toys in high demand,” he said.

Okoromadu said he had come to respect women who seek his products because he realised that they are trying to stay faithful.

Ibidapo-Obe told our correspondent that women who opt for sex toys should even be applauded because most of them are faithful.

She said in terms of demography, some of her clients are as young as 30 while some are as old as 60.

According to her, if sex toy helps her client stay faithful and avoid sexually transmitted diseases through multiple partners, then it is something that should be embraced.

She said, “Often times, elderly couples come to my shop to buy my products. There was an instance where a man who is my customer brought his wife to my shop to buy a sex toy for her.  He said that he was travelling abroad for a six month course and he needed a sex toy for his wife. He bought a sex toy for his wife and went his way. If it were to be some men with the old African mentality, they would not care about their wives’ sexual needs. But the man understood that there is no big deal in using sex toys.”

Ibidapo-Obe is one of the very few sex toy vendors, who have a physical store.

What religious leaders have to say

In Nigeria’s religious societies, many things are viewed through the eye of religion. This was why Saturday PUNCH sought out what some religious leaders thought about the use of sex toys.

A marriage counsellor, Pastor Rotimi Akintan, said that the use of  sex toys is against the tenets of Christianity.

He said when couples indulge in such act,  what they are saying is that God’s creation is not good enough.

Akintan further proffered solutions for people who are not sexually satisfied in their marriage.

The pastor said, “It is not allowed in Christianity and we believe that it is a form of oral sex or an addition to what God has given you. You need to be able to satisfy your spouse and if either of them is not satisfied sexually, they should talk about it and find ways to remedy the situation. The use of sex toys means that the person is not contented with what God has provided.

“Godliness and contentment is a great thing; so far as you are married to a man, if his manhood is not satisfying you, you should pray to God for help. It is not permitted in Christianity. It is against the rule and it is a sin because it means that the person is saying what God has created is not good enough,” he said.

An Islamic cleric,Alhaji Idris Yusuff, was of the same opinion. He said Islam frowns on the use of sex toys by couples. He said that the essence of sex is to procreate and also get closer.

“As far as the act of sexual intercourse is not between a man and a woman the way God designed it to be and as it was recorded in the Quran and Sharia, it is against the tenet of Islam. Once human beings are beginning to change the things God designs, they are straying away from the preaching of the Holy Quran. It is called Haram and it is a sin. Sex is meant to bring the couple closer and also to procreate, anything other than that is frown upon in Islam,” he said.

Our hypocrisy about sex comes from lack of knowledge – Psychologist

Psychologist and lecturer at the University of Lagos, Prof. Esther Akinsola, told Saturday PUNCH that if Nigerians were given the proper education about sexuality in their youth, there would not be so much hypocrisy about sex in the society.

According to the don, Nigerians shy away from talking about sex openly because of the erroneous belief that it is immoral.

She said, “We have a myopic idea of what sexuality is about. Sexuality is much more than sexual intercourse. Intercourse is just a minute part of sexuality. I have been teaching human sexuality for many years and have been taking part in non-governmental organisations that deal with sexuality.

“The majority of adults I have met at sexuality workshops are still very conservative about human sexuality despite their education. I am part of a team that is tasked with promoting sexual education in schools. Some people believe that when you introduce sexuality education in school, you are teaching the child how to have sex. But sexual awareness should be part and parcel of our children. We need to teach them right from when they are still young.

“They need to know that there are certain areas of their bodies that not just anybody should touch. They must be taught sexual hygiene. For instance, some of us still find it difficult to talk to our female children about menstruation. We find it difficult to talk to our boys about ‘wet dreams’ when they are growing up.  We are being captured by our cultural primitivity.”

 Additional report by Angel George    (Punchng.com)

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